Our initial interest is on the basis of emotion, then we look for facts only later.
SOCIAL MEDIA: “HEY, STUPID!” DOESN’T CHANGE ANYBODY’S MIND.
Nobody reacts well to hostility, so what’s the benefit of being hostile on social media?
There is none.
If you want to change minds on social media, think about what other people write that makes you stop listening to them… and stop writing that way, yourself.
It’s not easy, but it’s powerful.
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Internal comms? External comms? There's no difference.
Instead ask only this: what will it take to get this person to take the action I have in mind?
We are motivated most by the basics: what we like, love, hate, need, desire, fear – common needs of all humans, not the particulars of our day.
Keep your eyes on what makes us human, not what defines our jobs. That stuff is secondary.
Always has been. Always will be.
If you’re writing to inform, you’re not connecting with the audience.
People need a reason to go where you’re leading. They need a goal.
Write to persuade – every time.
Not only will you be more compelling, the writing will come easier because you’re focused on the action you want readers (or listeners) to take.
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STEP 1: Think about the last time someone tried to change your mind. Your first reaction was to say “no,” right?
That’s how we are as humans, instinctually defensive.
It’s self-preservation from biology, a good thing in the main.
STEP 2: Now think about when *you* try to change someone’s mind
STEP 3: Think about how you felt when they immediately said no. It was frustrating, right?
STEP 4: Make this choice: the next time someone tries to change your mind, you will assume their intentions are good. Even if everything they do suggests otherwise.
STEP 5: Consider their argument separate from where it came from or how they made you feel.
STEP 6: In light of this experience, think of things you might do the next time you try to persuade someone. What can you do to make your presentation more acceptable? Can you make them less likely to fall on instinct and say no?
The call to action is the thing you want the reader or listener to do. It goes at the end.
So how come so many of us keep writing?
End with the call to action. Literally.
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Straightforward guidance from Harvard Business Review. Basically: when your opponent arrives at "take it or leave it," anticipate it, and come to the discussion with other choices ready. Persist!
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